Friday, October 15, 2010

Wink and babydom is gone



You are now 25 months old, feels like only last moment gone that you were given onto my hand, when you came out of me. How can I forget the tender voice of you crying, the wetness and the creamy layer on you then. (the tantrums and puppy shrieks of yours  remind me of that even more). A tiny human being who apparently thought that he is a part of the mother and now so clear about his own self.

Time flew by as I saw you achieving all your milestones either on time or way ahead of it, attempting for the next almost immediately of achieving one. Smiling at 40 days, turning over at 80 days, rolling then onwards, crawling on your back and not on tummy at 4 months :) (yes, only you can do such things), sitting down at 5 and half months, crawling on knees at 7 months, holding and standing at 9 months, walking without help at 10 months. And now full-fledged talking with correct grammar at 25 months. Oh! jumping and hopping. Even correcting us when we say something wrong.
    
The depiction of "Mary had a little lamb" rhyme in this particular video has a real girl and a sheep (which looks like a cow) with a drawn up backdrop of some landscape. 

You: Cow
Shiv: Na Ganesh, that's a lamb, baby sheep. It says Ba-Ae-Ae-Ae
You: Na Na. No Ba-Ae-Ae. It says Moooooooooooo.
Shiv: Na na. It is a lamb. Mary had a little lamb.
You: Appa na na. That's a cow. Moooooo Mooooo
Shiv: na na. Thats a lamb
You: COW
Shiv: :|

I love it when you hold yourself on me to the closest level possible and ask "amma baa", for me to set you in a way that the minute space left out is also gone, our rolling and tickling games. I am so proud of you being imaginative and happy to clean the mess you make by making Dosas on the floor with the banana shake or curds which is supposed to go to your tummy.

Me: Ganesh, what is your name?
You: Ganesh
Me (blown up with pride): How are you?
You: Ganesh
Me: How do you do? 
You: Ganesh
Me: :|

You preferring girls over boys (yes!) and not only giving them well-deserved special attention but also your snacks! I am always on cloud nine seeing your gentleman-ish approach towards them. What handshake(s), saying Hi with a wave and asking them to join you to play! 

You have been an entertainer throughout, which I knew from the moment you made the funny squeaking sounds while latching on to have milk on your day-one itself. Later on our storytelling, complaining and pulling each others legs, all in the pretext of talking to you. Oh! you have been a patient listener. Your fake smiles for posing for camera.


I must say, all the older girls in the family are really impressed with you already and are waiting for you to grow up to have more fun conversations with you. :)

Now that you will be a school boy in a few months' time, I just cannot comprehend the lightning speed reality.

 
What's ahead
Advances in self-care skills come fast and furious during the preschool years. Most kids have mastered the basics of self-care - dressing, washing their hands, feeding themselves, and going to the bathroom (but not necessarily wiping!) - by their fourth birthday. As the months and years roll by, your child will get better and better at meeting her own needs. You'll blink, a few years will go by, and she'll be able to tie her shoes and shower or bathe by herself. Then it's just a matter of time until she can do laundry and cook dinner, not to mention drive herself to soccer practice. By then you'll be wishing she'd let you baby her once in a while, but her refusal to give up her autonomy will be a testament to your success in teaching her to care for herself.
~ courtesy babycenter

PS: Ganesh's seat in one of the oldest schools have been confirmed and I am proud to announce that we are lucky to have our "self-written" application being considered for our "interview" for his admission.


5 comments:

  1. nice nostalgia...coincidentally my daughter is celebrating her 20th b'day today...i am just not able to think back what happened all these 20yrs..but only have in mind the Dr's smile when i was in the cesarean board...placing in my hand the cute little doll... mmmm...i doubt whether we keep pace with the time..mmmm nice one...காலம் ஓடும் வேகத்தில் வாழ்க்கையைத் துரத்திக்கொண்டு நாமும் ஓட வேண்டியது தான் ம்ம்ம்

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  2. NICE one lady... beautifully written... enchanting... ;-)

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  3. @Mangai (akka?): Congratulations on her birthday. Time flies!
    Very well said. I had to get a colleague of mine to read the tamil part for me. Ofcourse english wouldn't have done justice to the meaning conveyed. :) Thanks for posting such a comment. Meant a lot to me.


    @Navvy: Thanks bud :)

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  4. he is such a cute boy. Man, how time flies!

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  5. Good luck for the interview..!!And thanks for ur comments am "Humbled" ..!!

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